Thank you so, so much Daniel, for the first time in years I finally feel someone understands my situation.
Yes her health is suffering (as is ours as parents), she is petrified of the bath, she thrashes around which often results in Grand Mal seizures. So very scary when she turns blue and there is nothing you can do except administer rectal diazepam. Then she is covered in bruises from thrashing around. I have fallen downstairs three times due to my daughter panicking whilst being carried upstairs. It does not take much to be put of balance
Goodness, if I am coming across as moaning I apologise profusely