hi i need help with my son he is 3 and have severe regressivee autism and low to moderate aspergers he does not talk and really doesnt like going new places or meeting new people.

my self and my family have to go to southend for a funeral next week which just cant be missed but must take my son with me as he wont stay with anyone else as this is a change in routine he is still learning objects of reference so we cant use that to tell him we going away i have spoke to his doctors his keyworkers and everyone i can think of about what to do but they can tell me nothing i really do need help there must be someone with info please many thanks for any help you can give

sorry this is brief but one thing i would advise is to make sure your son has as much familar stuff around him as possible. for my daughter we use both visuals and objects of reference. when in the car for a long journey we have a portial dvd player which has either toy story or the gruffalo on constant play. just things which i call my daughters comforters