hello i have posted on her before my son has complex needs. for the past 2 days i have woke up to my son doing things in his room which he should of done on the toilet. this moring i have gone in his room and it stinks of wee. i have asked him did he do it and he said no but he is blaming his sister that dosent share a room with him atall and she has her door shut so she cant get out. his other brother that he shares a room with has a nappy on so he couldnt of done it. my son has pulled half his wall paper down and it just looks a mess. i am up till about 1 in the moring checking on my son because he can fall out of bed and he moves round quite alot. when he has had a accident he lyes in it for couple of hours so thats why i have to watch him at night and he is up by 6 so im nackard. i dont understand why his behaviour is like this. i know he has behaviour problems but this issue with his personal care i will have to tell cahms. any advice.

(09-03-2010 11:01 AM)windsor09 Wrote:  hello i have posted on her before my son has complex needs. for the past 2 days i have woke up to my son doing things in his room which he should of done on the toilet. this moring i have gone in his room and it stinks of wee. i have asked him did he do it and he said no but he is blaming his sister that dosent share a room with him atall and she has her door shut so she cant get out. his other brother that he shares a room with has a nappy on so he couldnt of done it. my son has pulled half his wall paper down and it just looks a mess. i am up till about 1 in the moring checking on my son because he can fall out of bed and he moves round quite alot. when he has had a accident he lyes in it for couple of hours so thats why i have to watch him at night and he is up by 6 so im nackard. i dont understand why his behaviour is like this. i know he has behaviour problems but this issue with his personal care i will have to tell cahms. any advice.

Hello,
You don't say how old our son is but I have been having the same problem with my 15 year old son.
He has been dry and clean for the past 3 years ad all of a sudden back in May he started wetting again.
We still don't know why, we have tried all the drugs and things that we can try but nothing has worked, we have no had to put him into pull ups of a night time, he wont even get up to use the toilet which is right next to his bedroom when he is awake!.
I don't know the answer but I wanted to let yo know you are not alone.
I wish you luck in your quest for an answer and some help x
Claire

sorry my son is 5. my OT put in a step for him as he isant using the toilet. so my OT is getting someone to put ina rail for the toilet as he finds it hard to balance. ihave a rader key for him when we are out so we can go in the toilet but he dosent like using them atall so i struggle with him usuing strange toilets. he had dcd but i just dont understand why he is weein all over his bedroom floor and he poos and put it in the towel and gave it to me the other moring. and when i was away his brother was sleep downstairs and because he wanted him awake he weed all over where he was sleepin so he couldnt go back to sleep. he shares a bedroom with his brother and he wakes him up so his brother is nackard inn the day. and he is also storing food aswell and we find him eating toffees in the moring