nah he doesnt know about the date i dnt like him knowin what im up 2!! ive been on to the csa n coz hes ignorin em n not replyin all they tell me is they cant get in touch with him n 2 call bk in 6 weeks ive had almost a year of it now there useless i tell ya x
ive tried the mediation but he refused it so not much more i can do hes an absolute waste of time n id love it if my boys never had 2 see him again hes messed em around for way to long jake stands at the window knockin shouting daddy

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my 2 boys so much

that is unbelievable, i could understand him asking for money if he paid what he should (and without having csa involved) but to not pay a penny and then ask for money for him having his own child for 2 nights a week, by his reckoning if you should be paying him £30 for 2 nights then he should be paying £105 a week before you give him a penny. he gives men a bad name, there are plenty of deadbeat dads (and i use term dad lightly) but to ask to be paid to spend time with their Children is the absolute limit.

hugs hun, in no way is it your fault that he cant see his dad and when he grows up you can tell him that you couldnt afford to pay his dad to spend time with him. you do what you are doing and make sure your Children grow up like you not that waste of space
corinne