a few weeks ago my father in law passed away and my daughter isnt taking it too well alothough she isnt really showing its up set her it seams to be manifesting in her behaviour she has got really really agressive she hits kicks and shouts (before this se hardly got this sort of behaviour) and i dont know what to do ive tried talking to her and all i get is i miss my grandad she wont say anythung else wether its becouse of her disability she cant actually vocalise whats she is feeling or just doesnt want to i dont know and i dont know how to help her i feel so useless that i cant help my daughter and i just dont know what to do so any advice will be sooo helpfull

Winston's Wish is a charity for bereaved children. Their website has some excellant advice.
There are also a lot of children's books dealing with the subject of death which may help her.

http://www.winstonswish.org.uk/