well, ive taken the babygate off melissa's room, shes been downstairs a few times, just tell her its bed time and off she goes back upstairs, want to get rid of the potty that i normally have in her room at night, which shes always knocking over and washing her dolls in, if all goes well her carpet can go and get a new one

aww good luck xx
im trying to start potty traing my older 1 oh its just not fun lol

Stick with it it may be hard at first but she will get used to it.
Or she may just suprise you
Failing that you could put the babygate on the stairs and then the potty in your room for 3 am emergencies

she came down to turn the living room lights on then went back up, i wish i could put a baby gate on the stairs, she can open the ones we have, the one in her room was broken so you had to climb over it dont fancy doing that ont he stairs, theres a toilet upstairs it just with her being used to using her potty at night, esp when she wakes up all tired hope she makes it haha, then ive got to start the whole thing over with bradley when hes older, i hated potty training, for some reason melissa was always fine at night, but during the day was a pain took a good year just to get her to use the potty in the living room, the re-teach her with pulling knickers up and down (started bare bum, then went to knickers which she wee'ed through) then moved onto the toilet, luckly all done just before she started school, whereever we go have to show her where the toilet is and she'll go herself, she never asks to go

do they still have those potties that you can take the top off and they fit on the toilet and the bottom becomes a step?? soz matts 16 now so dont know if they still around hehe, we used a commode as matt was older when toilet training so felt safer and looking more like a loo wasnt hard to change over to loo.
corinne