spoke to DLA today they said they having problems they have sent for nursery report but headteacher gone on holiday
well great the woman completely hates me as i made it clear she has put us in danger so since then shes been very off with me

i asked to do work placement there she said no due to school policy which i know is complete lie so i think she will paint a rosey picture

ive recieved jack report off pead so il be sending that tommorrow and have to wait an see

pead report says
gross motor- 30month mild delay
manip skills- 30months mild delay
visual skills- 36month appropriate (hes 42month)
hearing and language- 30 mild mild
speech an lan- 18month - severe delay
social inter skill- 26month - moderate
selfcare social skill- 48month (dont understand why so high)

has clinodactyly
prominent forehead
fading haemangioma there no other neurocutaneous stigmata or dysmorphic features

main part says i have noted that jack has good eye contact. i have also noted that he lines up bricks and also lines up small containers in clinic room today. he did not get upset during change to another task. i have also noted that he is always holding the blue bag with him except when he did development test. i also noted that jack holds mums chin and neck to face when he wants to talk to her

could this be enough along with salt,gp an nursey

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so sorry this is taking so long, am not sure about any of it but some one will come along?

What would you say the delays cause in regards to you providing care?

1. he cannot dress himself or go toilet on own i have to take him an help also wets himself alot and during night im having to change his clothing and sheets as he soaks through
2.he has no understanding of safety he will run out into road, turn cooker on, i have to lock all doors as he opens then an walks off aswell as windows he opens then tries climb out of throw things.
he will try to eat or drink anything i have to lock bleech up soon as buy it as he wants drink it

3.speech he can only say single words and odd two words together although i can sometimes understand other people cant

4. his behaviour, he will throw violent tantrums and attack people over slightest thing such as bradley picking up a toy

5. wakes during night in pain due to his feet hurting aswell as hes always ill with chest infections so he has trouble breathing

6. he has problems walking has to go in buggy as he will get so far then in pain an refuses to walk

these are main ones i can think of just woke up so bit out of it still

been thinking the only way i can explain it is my 3 1/2 year old is like a very clever 18month year old with a temper
hes very creative but thats only time it feel like we connect cant really explain it
as if i get to see part of the real jack