hi castopher
you would also need to inform tax credits as depending on the rate you could get some disabled child tax credits which helps too
corinne

just to add while you dont need to put on here what you were awarded as that is personal i want to state that the members we have here have never given anything but congratulations towards good news regarding dla and have not shown animosity, more likely they would ask for help in filling out the forms

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(08-29-2010 11:06 PM)corinne Wrote:  hi castopher
you would also need to inform tax credits as depending on the rate you could get some disabled child tax credits which helps too
corinne
we have here have never given anything but congratulations towards good news regarding dla and have not shown animosity

And if they did animosity then

Hello enough about this animosity thing ,

It was a personal decision I was unsure. I think its getting a bit Exaggerated, as it was merely a worry for me which for some reason has turned into an issue. So I shall not be commenting any further on my post but thanks for your help which I have been constantly been saying as and really did apreciate It. If moderators could not see why a memeber maybe unsure why to post the amount may worry them a bit without taking it aa a personal remark I shall not be commenting any further again and you moderators go out of your way to help people, any if things are going to be picked out that dont exist you we getting of the beaten track and talking about somthing which was certainly not meant in the context it has been picked up in.

(08-30-2010 07:18 AM)castopher Wrote:  Hello enough about this animosity thing ,

It was a personal decision I was unsure. I think its getting a bit Exaggerated, as it was merely a worry for me which for some reason has turned into an issue. So I shall not be commenting any further on my post but thanks for your help which I have been constantly been saying as and really did apreciate It. If moderators could not see why a memeber maybe unsure why to post the amount may worry them a bit without taking it aa a personal remark I shall not be commenting any further again and you moderators go out of your way to help people, any if things are going to be picked out that dont exist you we getting of the beaten track and talking about somthing which was certainly not meant in the context it has been picked up in.

No no dont worry!
Nobody has been having a go!
We respect your choice on the matter not to divulge your award.
The point Corinne made was that nobody has ever been rude or jealous or made comments about awards.
And my point was it wouldnt be tollerated anyway
We all have our right to privacy and as i said intially it was only with your intention i asked but that was cleared up and then Corinne said about how it wouldnt have been commented on as this forum is just not like that.
We do not tollerate abuse of any kind and to be honest this forum moderates itself in regards to members behaviour as our forum members are kind,supportive and fantastic and as a special needs forum people would understand your award or your wish to keep it private.
I get the feeling you have taken it personally for some reason and im not sure why?

I intially wanted to be sure you were happy with the award and you were and Corinne made a comment to reassure you of the good intentions of the forum members
That was all and there was no hard feelings of any kind from me or Corinne

(09-02-2010 11:37 AM)castopher Wrote:  I have claimed Carers allowance now also this had made an amazing difference and I informed Tax Credit people which has increased out money, which is going to help catering for his needs alot easier. I waiting to hear about carer's allowance after all I earn nothing and doubt I could even try toat the moment . Strange thing is I was doing things automatically for my son without relizing his condition until we got professional involved and then it hit me ( I am ) dont maTter to me now because I am 45 so i acheive nothing my sharing it just wow what a hit! all the systoms problems i took somtime to think about myself , and the things that they do I realized WOW (like me re-incarnated) but I was and twice as bad as my son! has been a journey and an education to say the least. But this as a great forum I do take thing's literally, in fact I tick double the amount of boxe's for being on the Aspergers Spectrum than my son has , probally how i was emplying strageties they would have reccomended wihout any knoledge on my behalf , been a scarey journey which has opened my eyes alot again thanks for your help