aww hes so cute bless him
well i was awake most night worrying what comes next what she thinking
spoke to nursery today salt is going in pead said that salt meant see him today so they can discuss what next but nursery told me she said she dont need to see him
they have asked me to go in when she there as its wrong that i should be kept waiting, im quite annoyed with her feel like shoving my long list i took to pead an then say now Fing tell me its just speech problem

last night went shopping omg its getting worse he barely walked more like falling over ever step crawling around floor (his knees an head bruised now) an when he did stand he running in circles swinging a bag of apples at people

no mention of blood tests no mention of anything really as she was worrying as other lady was getting quite moody an rude outside


i googled the finger thing bad i know but always had problems myself holding pens etc and get pain when writing
apparently its Clinodactyly looking at pics im sure of it although no severe http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clinodactyly. he cant hold pens or cutlery right grips it hand at very end
jack head measures 53cm i dunno if its classed as big or not although she said it is

this jack at 5 months


an jack last march in his hat bless him was a 10/12yr hat still tight (wouldnt say his head too big tho)

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arghhhhhh i just need to scream (just ignore me need to get it out)
i just need to know what next its driving me mad no call of pead
at moment im really depressed an to point my relationship is hanging on by a thread due to me being stressed
my oh feels like im not doing enough in past 2 years
really fed up worrying trying get help but nothing

(03-04-2010 09:56 AM)xbeckyx Wrote:  arghhhhhh i just need to scream (just ignore me need to get it out)
i just need to know what next its driving me mad no call of pead
at moment im really depressed an to point my relationship is hanging on by a thread due to me being stressed
my oh feels like im not doing enough in past 2 years
really fed up worrying trying get help but nothing

Relationships can be hard when you have a child with special needs.
Me and Lucy know people have split up because of the stresses involved and its heart breaking to see.
Take things one step at a time and call the doctors and see what they say and ensure they have your mobile number if the doctor isnt there.
Try to avoid getting too stressed and allow your partner to call up later for you and get him involved with it aswell.
Its essential you are both on the same hymm sheet in order to go forward.
What do you think is causing the stresses in your relationship at the moment?

at the moment i think its im giving 100% to trying help jack an in a way i feel my partner dont understand he has 3 children who's never had any problems so i end up snapping when hes trying give me advice

its silly really although we only been together 2years he was there for jacks first word, even helped jack take his first step but i feel like he will never understand the stress when its you own child even tho he treats my boys like his own

the pead rang earlier missed first call but shee rang back while i was on phone to mark so he heard everything an we actually got on when i dropped few bits to work. i think its the not knowing whats wrong and feeling like wish we could do more


pead said his head is above average but not to worry, the development test he scored low on most things speech, gross an fine motor skills well pretty much every thing she said it could have been a bad day for him but then after speaking to salt she not sure

i came straight out an asked do you think jack could be on autistic spectrum she said she wants to talk to salt monday see what she thinks as salt had a secret meeting with school head then ring monday.
salt said other week she positive it just speech so looks like il have a fight on my hands aswell as headteacher complete 2faced c*w makes out she all concerned then to other people makes it seem like im making things sound OTT

(03-04-2010 12:23 PM)xbeckyx Wrote:  at the moment i think its im giving 100% to trying help jack an in a way i feel my partner dont understand he has 3 children who's never had any problems so i end up snapping when hes trying give me advice

its silly really although we only been together 2years he was there for jacks first word, even helped jack take his first step but i feel like he will never understand the stress when its you own child even tho he treats my boys like his own

the pead rang earlier missed first call but shee rang back while i was on phone to mark so he heard everything an we actually got on when i dropped few bits to work. i think its the not knowing whats wrong and feeling like wish we could do more


pead said his head is above average but not to worry, the development test he scored low on most things speech, gross an fine motor skills well pretty much every thing she said it could have been a bad day for him but then after speaking to salt she not sure

i came straight out an asked do you think jack could be on autistic spectrum she said she wants to talk to salt monday see what she thinks as salt had a secret meeting with school head then ring monday.
salt said other week she positive it just speech so looks like il have a fight on my hands aswell as headteacher complete 2faced c*w makes out she all concerned then to other people makes it seem like im making things sound OTT

Secret meetings behind your back
Shocking that truly is!
I would ask them out right what was discussed in that meeting!
If they wont tell you request a data protection release of your sons record that will scare them ....